1. Encourage your child to be self-motivated from an early age. Before you get married, let her stand on her own.
2. Your daughter can always feel like you're on her side. After marriage, the daughter becomes the next, father's house can no longer be associated with her - this is a wrong view. It is because of this mentality that girls are tortured in the in-laws.
3. Do not look for the daughter is not married, do not say harsh words. Have sympathy for him.
4. Do not consider marriage as the sole goal of your life. Encourage him to develop his talents, not just appearance or makeup. To him, praise for the form is temporary. The quality is everlasting. So develop the quality.
5. Don't rush into a marriage decision. Don't be overwhelmed by the casual behavior of the bride / groom. Find out everything and then decide. Marriage should take place in the social and socio-cultural spheres. And it's better if you're in a known boundary.
6. Don't give dowry. Happiness can never be bought in exchange for money. Money creates a vicious cycle that, as it becomes available, it lacks.
7. If it is impossible to sustain a marriage because of torture, neglect, betrayal or any other serious reason, then stand by your daughter. Do not put emotional pressure on the girl to keep the marriage in front of you because of social reproach or family stigma etc. Rather, it is better to decide on a separation before having a baby.
8. If a baby comes back to your family in peace, do not rush to have a child in the hope that your husband will be well. Because in most cases, after having children, the turmoil has increased and it has become more difficult to decide separation. Moreover, the mental balance of a child born or brought up through family turmoil is always shaky.
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