Family is my Best Life

One of the biggest problems in family life can be termed as mistaken beliefs and attitudes towards women. For example, the idea that 'women are the source of all sin' is also shared by many women. Because they thought that Eve was responsible for Adam's departure from heaven, which is actually the idea in Europe in the Middle Ages. However, in the Qur'an the eight verses related to this were not attributed to Eve but to both Adam and Eve.

Men and women deserve the reward.
The idea that women are less intelligent than men, less capable of enlightenment, is seen as a bully. However, the Holy Qur'an clearly states that the reward of believing men and women is equal. And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said that women are the companions of men. That is, women and men are equal. Again, this attitude of 'father after son' parents causes a girl to be discriminated against from her birth, which in her later life creates inferiority. But the importance of education and self-esteem in a girl like a boy is in no small part. In fact, men are the head of the family, but women are the life of the family. Because the family is centered on women. When this woman is neglected, oppressed, then there is no peace in her family. Peace can come to the family only if it is given due honor to the woman. And women have to create self-esteem in order to gain the deserved respect. 

Enlightened couple needed.
Marriage should always take place in a familiar environment, where mutual acquaintance is heard, and it must be with the consent of both families in the socio-social and socio-cultural sphere. In order to form a truly happy and happy family, a boy or daughter should marry whom he can respect, think of as his companion, and who will work shoulder to shoulder and dedicate everything to him. So for marriage, not only beauty or finances or high degree, good people need to find one who has similarities in consciousness and who can be companion in cosmic life even after this life. In fact, if the spouse is a partner in mutual intelligence and enlightenment and can raise the child as enlightenment, then it must be recognized as a successful couple. And the Foundation wishes for such a successful couple.

 Dowry maladies the dignity of men.
Another implication of the marriage is that the bride must be given a variety of expensive furnishings, luxury items, etc. during the marriage - a compulsion that is called dowry. Because the bride's parents are not joking. They are giving dowry as a compulsion under the pressure of the so-called rules of the prevailing society, so that after marriage, the daughter does not have to listen to her in-laws. But the truth is, no self-respecting man should accept all of these furnishings from his father-in-law's wedding as a so-called gift.

The diamond ring is ominous in marriage.
Another common practice of marriage is to compete for the cost of marriage. In addition to organizing multiple events for a single wedding, there are many occasions for shopping for clothing and ornaments. Despite the debt, many families were in distress when this marriage broke. Diamonds given in marriage often cause family unrest. Because diamonds are bad for most people.

In fact, the global capitalist cycle is using the media to promote food, entertainment and the fulfillment of biological needs as the most important aspects of life for their business interests. That is why in the media, marriage is portrayed as a myth. However, marriage is a normal and normal event whereby the fulfillment of the biological needs of both men and women becomes acceptable. Therefore, to think of a natural phenomenon in the sky and to waste it is nothing but adidas. Rather, this expense, rash, waste only brings about evil. The higher the smoke in a marriage, the lower the happiness in that marriage.

 

All of are family.
Family means husband and wife - this combination of the two is one of the major marriages of marriage. Because adding one to one is 'two', but placing one next to one is 'eleven'. In the same way, a man and a woman who form a family through marriage, the family is never fulfilled only by husband and wife unless the parents, brothers, sisters, husband and wife, ie husband and wife, do not integrate the family into the family. Goes And so the idea of ​​the single family of the 'Ham do Hamara do' slogan is now practically never a happy family. Because parents cannot be separated if they wish. The fact that being born into a mother's womb, being raised in the father's sense, and growing in affection for siblings cannot be denied, nor can this relationship be broken. This is true of a man, as is true of a woman. In fact, a successful householder or authority is the one who balances everything in such a perfect family with the skill of a skilled magician.

Make a family choice.
The Five Points of a Happy Family - Setting family motives, speaking directly to the complexities of relationships, building family traditions or customs, building empathy-love for a person without judging them by their behavior, and emphasizing spiritual consciousness and values. If a family has a monk in front of a family, that family can never be broken. Likewise, family customs encourage all family members to stay together. Being together can lead to misunderstandings, dissenting opinions. But in that case, it is much quicker and easier to resolve the two sides in a direct dialogue before the relationship becomes bitter. This will happen when the members have unconditional love and sympathy for each other, so that there is only effort, not power. And for this reason it is not just the protection of biological needs or lineage, but the need to view spiritual and spiritual consciousness as the basis of the family.

In bringing King Ban.
In fact, misconceptions about marriage and excessive expectations are the main cause of unrest in marriage. In the context of the marriage of 'Raja Banke Anar - Mujhe lake jaare, Chham chhmasham chham', the temptation in the Hindi cinema, the fascination that has erupted in real life, will happen in real life. Imagine for ourselves a husband or wife as a movie hero or heroine. But in real life there is no resemblance to cinema life. In reality, there is no end to their grief and unhappiness.

Usually in marriage, the boy is expected to be feminine, beautiful and young. The daughter's father's house should have a car bank-balance, so that dowry can be available. Again, if the boy is a good wage worker or a moneylender or abroad, it is enough to be a good vessel. They don't even think they need to look at whether he is drunk, tempered or limp or what he does abroad. They do not even want to worry about their daughter's education or career loss after marriage.

Forced marriage is a crime.
Another implication of marriage is that it makes the marriage compulsory. But the Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "Marriage is my circumcision. The person who violated this circumcision (despite having physical and financial coherence) is not in my party ', ie, the biological needs were encouraged to be fulfilled through marriage. But for anyone who does not feel biologically required, marriage is not obligatory. Emotional interest is important for marriage. If a person is unaware of the marriage, his marriage will be disrupted on the one hand, even if he is forced to marry, another man will be deceived. In this case the coercion of parents is absolutely unfair.

The third implication of marriage is the notion of life without marriage. As many who have been married have become famous, we also find names of many men and women who have not been married who have become famous. That is, marriage has nothing to do with being meaningful or being famous. Because marriage is a responsibility that needs to be balanced in all four basic needs - physical, mental, family and spiritual. If he is physically, mentally or financially unable to perform his duties, then marriage is meaningless. Such a marriage calls for turmoil.

 
Everyone in the family gets together, exchanges mutual views, eating any Bella's meal together.

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