Saturday, January 25, 2020

Must do for a happy family

The happiness of each individual depends on the happiness of the family. Many spend most of their lives in order to keep everyone in the family happy. But despite this, many people do not understand when to lose happiness. One of the biggest conditions behind building a happy family is spending time with family. Can't really make family members happy by just making money from home.


Husband should do:



1. Think of yourself as the head of the family.

2. Remember to worship in the family.

3. Think of your wife as a friend, a companion, and a life-force.

4. In each family decision-making, consult your wife.

5. Appreciate the wife's good work, contributions and accomplishments.

6. Be faithful to your wife; Express love and affection through words and actions.

7. Avoid expressing anger at the wife, children, or housemates in the workplace or outside.

8. Acknowledge your mistake to your wife. Forgive me for wrong.

9. Meet the needs of the wife on the basis of income, provide small gifts and expenses, and refrain from asking about the expenses of the expenses.

10. Do not take away your wife's freedom without spending money and wealth on her.

11. Be careful to meet your wife's reasonable concerns.

12. Give your wife a clear idea of ​​your income from the beginning and refrain from making money in illegal ways.

13. In the event of an occupational or family crisis, openly discuss it with your wife.

14. Avoid giving unreasonable hindrance to the gift of giving or helping relatives.

15. Don't talk to his wife's relatives.

16. Respect your wife's parents as your own parents do.

17. Avoid interfering with the roof of the house. Cooperate with the chores in the house.

18. Do not scold your children for the wrongs of the wife.

19. Do not hide anything from the wife unnecessarily.

20. Spend a whole week with your wife and sons and daughters. Take part in every task of the house - even cooking - as a picnic. Do your own little work by pouring water into the glass.

21. Treat your wife's mistakes with empathy, and refrain from harshly criticizing her.

22. Spend time with the club or 'friends' for work outside or for the spiritual and emotional well-being of the family, without wasting time on the chat.

23. Do not defame your wife.

24. Don't waste money. Avoid passionate shopping.

25. Try to find your own fault.

26. Ask for your wife's physical inquiries regularly. Try to get yourself to a doctor if you're sick.

27. Listen carefully to any wife complaints. Avoid saying "no" to a proposal or word first.

28. Help the wife do her homework and child support as best she can.

Wife's should do:


1. Think of the life of your family

2. Think of the world as a place of worship.

3. Think of your husband as a friend, spouse, mentor and family head.

4. Avoid doing anything by hiding your husband.

5. Be proud of your husband's good work, contributions and achievements.

6. Be faithful to your husband at all times. Express your love and affection in words and deeds.

7. Avoid talking or complaining about a problem as your spouse comes out.

8. If you are wrong or wrong, feel free to admit it and ask your husband for forgiveness.

9. If possible, at your own expense, buy a small gift for your husband. Spend your money for your husband and family when you need it.

10. Avoid making any unreasonable hugs to your husband.

11. Have an idea about the husband's reasonable income. Try to limit the cost of the family within your income. Do not force your husband to become corrupt by creating additional costs and pressures.

12. Be moderate in personal shopping

13. Extend your full support to your husband in any danger or crisis.

14. Do not give anything to your husband unknowingly.

15. Avoid searching with your husband's relatives.

16. Honor your father-in-law as your parents. Love your husband's siblings as your own brothers and sisters.

17. Be sure to solve the problem yourself.

18. Avoid arguing with the husband in front of the child and criticizing his or her mistakes.

19. Even if you are a businessman, be careful not to neglect your children and the world.

20. Treat your husband's disability with empathy.

21. Assist your husband in self-development and spiritual development. Take part in Hakkul worship or creation service as you like.

22. Avoid minimizing your husband to others.

23. As a mother, try to breastfeed your child and develop unique human qualities within the child.

24. Keep the gas stove closed at all times without need. Raise awareness in the family against all kinds of wastage.

25. Avoid the tendency to boast and exacerbate your hardships.

26. Never give up on your own contribution to the family.

27. Be careful to keep the house clean and tidy.

28. As a mother-in-law, do not consider your daughter-in-law as your daughter-in-law, and look at the wrongdoing of your daughter-in-law as a martyr.

Children should be reared:


1. Look at the child equally, regardless of boy and girl. Do not compare one child to another.

2. Don't criticize your child for saying negative things. Don't curse Dham with words or anger. Explain the reasoning of his actions without always ordering. Avoid blaming him or others for his mistakes. Please correct later.

3. Make him self-sufficient from an early age. Teach yourself to do things yourself. Call him for timely house chores. His responsibility to the family will increase.

4. Do not expose your child to any wrongdoing or sin. Try to correct him. However, let him get the fee sometimes. Which will help him to learn from mistakes.

5. Give your child enough time. Make a sincere and friendly relationship with him. Otherwise the phone, chat, TV, games, internet or harmful friendship will ruin him.

6. Avoid the habit of giving your child anything he or she wants. Do not meet his wrong words.

7. Give the child a fair idea about the financial affordability and real situation of the family. Don't misunderstand financially.

8. Do not allow the child to create any mischief. Identify and eliminate badness first.

9. Don't be afraid to be solid with your child for a reason. Your firmness will create security in him.

10. Keep in mind that the child is being subjected to Culture and Drug Addiction in the name of entertainment. As you grow older, be aware of your friends.

11. Build them as skilled people in applying science and technology. However, do not let the mobile, tab, laptop or computer, electronic gadgets be read all the time.

12. From a very young age it is better not to make him accustomed to being alone in the house. And even though you are older, keep an eye on the child so he does not spend time alone in his house. Make sure she's spending time with parents, siblings and everyone in the family.

13. Create opportunities to develop moral, emotional, spiritual and creative qualities.

14. Invite him to religious education. Lack of theology can fan the child.

15. Talk to him about his hobbies, hobby, and not just reading all the time. Make him enjoy healthy activities like sports, traveling, reading books and so on.

16. Do not impose life goals on your child. Help him make the decision. Encourage him to pursue an independent career instead of a job.

17. In the case of your child's marriage, do not seek to conceal information by concealing information from the other party. It's a crime

18. Make the child accustomed to greeting and shaking hands first.

19. Present yourself as an example to your child. However, do not portray it as absolutely innocent. If you make a mistake, feel sorry.

20. Do not disturb your child in the name of honor and do not oppress the name of the rule. Let him develop with respect and discipline.

21. Always remember that the affection and support you need most for your child's development. So make him great with compassion and foresight.

22. Involve your child with a good job, good or good from an early age. Encourage him to give, to help others, to love others.

23. Understand the subject and age, also share them in family counseling.

Towards the elderly in the family:


1. Be empathetic. Give him time. Find out about his diet, medical, financial and other needs.

2. Encourage the children at home to spend time with them.

3. Always tell him, 'You are fine' and 'We are on your side'.

4. Give him importance. Take her opinion on family decisions.

5. Do not press restrictions one by one directly. Encourage him to eliminate harmful habits.

6. When you are completely powerless, treat him humanely and cooperatively.

As a child:

1. Respect parents and be responsible to them.

2. Don't be offended by your parents' wrongdoing. Remember - it is through them that you come to earth.

3. Be courteous and good with them. Bless them before going for any good work.

4. Take care of elderly parents as your own child.

5. Help with household chores.

Hospitality:


1. Eliminate the excesses, wastes and excesses in hospitality.

2. If possible and environmentally friendly with your guests, discuss the activities and outlook of the Association and meditate on a happy life.

3. Avoid gift-giving practices at social events. Because the gift is what is given to each other willingly, with joy, unconditionally.

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