An alarming picture of the mental state of teenage boys in America has been highlighted in a recent magazine report. It is said that the biggest change in the attitude of parents in raising children is due to social media and technology in the last few decades, which is the crop of today's young people. This is narcissism or self-love.
The US youth is much more selfish and self-centered than at any time in the past. 30 years ago, as a young man thought of others, thinking of big goals, it is no more. Studies show that 58% of young people are now growing up with a selfish and self-centered attitude. In the language of psychology that can be called Narcissism or Self-Love! Bullying and cheating at school and finally being unhappy is their destiny now.
The US is not the breeze of this young society that our society didn't even care about. And one of the major reasons for this is that parents now pay less attention to children's academic or skills education, less to their moral and humane education and social education.
They are raising the child as a separate family, as a separate entity. Even among siblings, communication or bonding is so low that many families may not even meet at the dining table. The one in whose room the house is.
Parents can follow some small tasks to make a child a part of the family -
1. Teach him to share from an early age. Teach others to share toys, chocolates or anything else they like with cousins or peers.
2. Let him do the things himself. Make your own books, packing clothes, eating your own food, getting ready for school, bathing, etc. so that he can do it himself.
3. Let him help you not only with your work, but also at home. As a parent, you should take part in the activities of this world that you have to do. Do not keep him away from the thought of trouble, whether you can, etc.
4. Do not allow yourself to be practiced in a single room since it is very small. Let them share with other siblings. Or put another family member in that room.
5. Do not let him stay with mobile gadgets such as mobiles, tabs, laptops or computers. You give him time. Tell stories about his likes, hobbies. Take it to the fence. Keep busy with your favorite things.
6. When you are growing up, be careful not to close the door at all times, so that you are not in the habit of being inside.
7. When relatives come home, introduce them to them. Take them with you when you visit someone's house or an invitation.
8. Don't just keep him busy all the time reading or coaching, training, etc. Even when talking, do not just talk about it all the time. Talk to him about different things.
9. Teach your child religious education according to their own beliefs. Encourage him to practice the scriptures.
10. Involve your child with a good job, good or good from an early age. Encourage him to give, to help others, to love others.
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