1. It should be started from the womb.
When a baby is in the womb, think of it as desired and expected. Make her come to earth with a smile. Because during pregnancy, the mother's thoughts and emotions are transmitted to the womb. If the child is unwanted, he will be born with a deep uncertainty. For a healthy, healthy child, be happy this time, think honestly. Check the box for your unborn child. Just look at the way you want to see him in mind-building. The more perfect and fulfilled the mindset is, the more it will be reflected in the child. Breastfeed as a mother for balanced nutrition after childbirth. It will also develop an inseparable bond of his love with you.
2. Remember that the relationship between your spouse will affect your child.
In the family history of drug addicts and terrorists, they are often the children of the Broken Family. When a child sees his parents quarreling, he begins to suffer uncertainty. He subconsciously wonders what will happen to my parents if they are separated? There is a lot of psychosis in him. Your child can understand that your relationship is not artificial or sincere. Before you have a baby, think about what your marriage status is. How healthy What is the sought-after power interval? If so, come to a decision with that. Along with that, decide what you will teach your child? Because if you have a dispute, disagreement or talk about your child, the child will be the first victim.
3. Many toys are not clothing or cartoons, but your child needs you.
Parents often want to compensate their child for not being able to spend time by buying him many toys, clothing or cartoons. But remember, by doing this you are not able to satisfy your shortage, but rather increase your product demand. If the child is not given enough attention, then naturally his attraction to the family will decrease. For entertainment or spending time, he will choose a dishonest partner like mobile, video games, TV, internet, pornography or a bad friend. And it can also mean that you have to regret it forever. So be sure, each day the two of you spend some time with your child. It is not the time to be, it is. What is important is how you spend this time. If you spend a lot of time sitting next to your child watching TV, you will make a mistake. If you can give your child only 3 hours a day like giving, then he or she will wait for 9 hours.
4. Not what you say. Children learn what you do.
It's not what you say, it's what you learn as a child. Suppose you are neglecting your old parents. Never expect your child to be very caring for your old age. You will lead a chaotic life and tell your child to be regular, that will never happen. So check yourself before becoming a parent. Have you qualified to be a child's role model? What qualities do you want it to develop? And do you not want to be infected with those faults? Build yourself that way. As a parent, try the advice you give your child first. Don't expose yourself to a child as innocent, perfect, incorruptible. Because if your mistake is ever published then he will get confused. If you make a mistake, be honest. As this will increase your child's respect for you, you will be a model for him.
5. Learn to say no to your child.
If you make your child accustomed to getting anything he wants, he will never understand the importance of patience, gratitude or hard work. There is no need for the child to fulfill every request. Even before giving, let him get accustomed to waiting for something. It will develop in him the qualities of patience and endurance. He understands that if you have to suffer, you have to wait. And not all demands can be good. Give a fair idea about the financial affordability and real situation of the family. Don't misunderstand financially. In fact, do not hesitate to be strong with your child when needed. Your firmness will only increase his safety.
6. Raise your child with love and discipline.
Adoption and discipline are both necessary for a child to grow. Most parents make mistakes here. Childhood gives extra joy. But as he grew older, he began to rule. But then it was too late. So if the child is 5 years old then start doing it wrong if you do something wrong. If you make a mistake, let him get his fee. Punish if necessary. Then he can learn from the consequences. Destroy the child's bad behavior. However, do not kill and do not argue or mislead others. Correct the hide and let it be rectified. Remember, however, that children cannot be made by rule alone. Your affection, compassion and support are most needed to develop his talent. Encourage your child to do any good.
7. Teach your child to be patient and hardworking, not to make a nanny doll.
One of the tendencies of parents is that they want to raise their child in the face of all the hostility and danger of the world. They want children to be educated all the time. And as a result, nowadays, children are growing up in an inexperienced environment. People who don't know how to work. Don't understand anything outside the book. Get your child used to working from an early age. Make him self-sufficient with a little responsibility. Encourage him to do his work as much as possible.
8. Teach your child to give.
He who knows how to give, knows how to live well. Develop donor habits in your child from an early age. Let him enjoy the pleasure of giving. For example, someone in your family might give a gift. Hand the gift to your child. It will develop the habit of the donor in it.
9. Be patient.
Don't want to see good qualities in your child overnight. Encourage him to change patiently. Otherwise you will suffer from depression. You might react in a way that would be more dangerous to your child.
10. Have the right view of your child.
Don't be addicted to your child. It is not your property, but the Creator's deposit to you. It is your responsibility to cultivate him as a unique human being by virtue of proper education, training and moral qualities. And do not expect to reward the child for doing your duty. Do not think of him as a refuge in old age. The Creator is the true Protector.
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