Why Your Child Doesn't Listen to You

All parents want this child to grow up in childbirth. But parents do something wrong when it comes to raising their children. We think children are like us. They either understand what we understand or they like it too. It does not make sense that if the child understood as me, then he would not have been a child. That is why he must understand the way he understands it.

In this case, family relationships are respectful and compassionate, and always motivate the child without giving orders, making them diligent and patient. Your child will listen to you.

Explain the reasoning of the child to his / her reasoning without the need to dictate the order.
The child may think that you feel you are the opponent if you are ordering him or her all the time. But you are the child's friend - this feeling is essential to his development. And even for kids as big as adults, it is important to explain why he does the job.
 
Let your child know that you understand him.
The more your child understands that you understand him, the more he will be loyal to you. Listen to you Therefore, to listen to him, listen to him first. Pay attention to his words. Let him know that you understand him. You will be surprised at his change.
 
Agree on the child.
Parental consensus about the child is important. Don't give parents the same opinion. The children are confused. Make decisions in advance. If you disagree with anything else, never argue with your child about it. Speak for yourself
 
Answer the child's question.
If you do not answer your child's question, he or she may find someone to answer or something that may not be as pleasant to you.
 
Tell your child what you do for yourself.
Children imitate what their parents are saying, not what they are saying. So do not ask your child to do something that you do not do yourself.

If you make a mistake, then get paid, punish if necessary.
If your child realizes that he or she is getting along without listening to you, he or she will be encouraged to disobey. So stay calm without yelling at you all the time, arrange some punishment. Don't be afraid to be firm about it. Because if the child realizes that he needs to be punished for this disobedience, he will be careful.
 

Don't say the same thing over and over again.
Repeatedly saying the same thing reduces its importance. Say it more than 3 times. Do not let him understand the punishment of listening.
 

Erase the generation gap.
One of the reasons for the Generation Gap with children is that parents want their children to be just as they were in their childhood. As a result, misunderstandings are created for this unrealistic expectation. So you have to be tolerant of certain things. You need to bring a balance between your child's needs, outlook and preferences with your needs, perspectives and preferences. For example, the current generation's interest, skills, potential in technology is more than the old generation. If it is accepted by the elders, praised and appreciated for this quality, then a good understanding relationship is created.
 

Do not let your imperfect dreams come true in the child.
Parents often want their child's dream to come true. As a result, they decide what the goal of a child's life will be, regardless of what the child wants or needs. And then the child has to pay his fee. He cannot fulfill his parents' demands or develop his own merit. So after a period of aggravation, give yourself the freedom to think and make decisions without interfering with it. In this, he will become self-sufficient.
 

Don't ruin your child's self-esteem.
We often forget that children have self-esteem. We may rebuke, mislead, or ignore him in front of others. Be careful about such behavior. Don't say anything like this: 'Nothing will happen to you'. Do not seek out the context of failure, your enthusiasm can also turn its failure into success.

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